The musing of an aching heart

Strange, stranger and strangest are the ways of the heart! All of us know it but few understand this. It amuses me as to how, this four valve thing reacts, acts and pro acts to the various sense of life's rhythm. It makes me laugh, makes me cry, makes me dream and is the result of every desire as to what I need.

It has the solution of every problem, as well as poses a problem to every possible solution. The heart-is the element of every contradictory emotion. It is the only element of our system that knows how to 'love to hate' and 'hate to late'. It lives two lives at one go. It is as strong as the rock of Gibraltar and as fragile as the glass.

It makes and breaks and again breaks and creates. It brings to mind the image that it has in the 21st century-a package wrapped up with band aid, yet has a reindeer red nose and that 'smiley smile. It is the only living thing that has the ability to hurt and get hurt. This four valve-fist size breed longs to love and be loved. As simple as it looks, it gets into complications and complexity, just as the fire to a moth.

It is the reason for many blood shed and the reason of every breathing cell. The heart is the inspiration of every painter's muse, every poets verse, every sculptors mould and every director's story. The heart is the story of every story as well as the muse to itself. Feelings, what can I say, romance, intimacy, intensity, envy, jealousy and the high of doing the wrong of every right.

It is the beat behind every pulse, yet the same kills it. But there is one thing that remains-the pain. Pain is its language. Pain is how its best described.

When you answer my silence

It burns my heart deep within,
When you answer my silence,
My fingers tremble,
as the pain seeps in.

I'm shaking with disbelief,
My cheeks grow hot and red,
My palms sweat as I feel stripped and naked,
How much more will you read me through your words,

Enough is enough,
I can't take it anymore,
My eyes fill with tears as I empty all through the night.
But by morning it fills the cup of my day again.

Your reply in verses and lines,
It makes me wonder whether we are or otherwise,
The bridge that time has created between us,
What should I do, to forever surpass.

I hope against the hopeless

It doesn't go beyond this,
The wait along the road of both pain and loss.
I'm afraid I have forgotten your voice,
I admit it is not the result of a choice.

Until yesterday I felt your presence
But now this moment, I fear and listen to dead silence
I close my eyes to see you face,
That beautiful smile and endless grace, but,

All I see is darkness,
My heart hits the gut of emtiness,
It breaks my heart and soul,
Wondering whether I have lost you at all.

Time, I hear her say, move on, love,
But I fight and disagree to believe it at all.
No, I say and scream in silence,
Not accepting that I have no more of your touch and guidance.

I wish not that this happened,
I wish not that you ever left.
I hope against the hopeless.
Knowing the yearning for you to come back is worthless.

Oh! Hyderabad, why do you still ‘Hyd’?

So, what’s the gender of God again? Male or female! And again if so like we believe, God is love…. So what gender is love again? If we are not quite sure of the above two, the obvious next question is why opposites should always and must attract, by law (Who made the law?). And why can’t we have a ‘not opposite partner to love and make love’?

Sounds complicated? Well, the way the world has coined love and its relationships come under the same umbrella. We are all aware of the ultimate truth that we all possess unique DNA and that our feelings, emotions and understandings vary according to this design. Still we fail to accept few universal realities, one being that, there are people living in this world who for love’s sake (Damn the blind cupid) fall in love with people of the same sex.

India, as a country is not new to this concept. Dig a little into history and you will be only taken by surprise that kings and queens had ‘keep’ majority being of the same sexual category. So, why this hue and cry about the existence of lesbian or gay individuals on this phase of the earth? Genetic is a funny thing, but people are capable of feeling masculine or feminine at the same time. Well, when I mention people, it includes you and me as well. In every one of us there exists masculine and feminine sexuality. When one dominates the other, we behave differently. That’s when a girl tends to be tom boyish and guys shy like a lady. And the other reason being that they choose to like people of the same sex, it may become the outcome of some incident that has resulted in a rather bad taste during the whole episode.
Still in spite of this awareness, they are mocked, rejected and are ridiculed. With all greatness and pride I have of the city I live, still Hyderabad, ‘Hyd’s’ away. The city we live proclaims itself to be tolerant and is welcoming with open alms the metrosexual man and the fashionable ‘diva’ women. It’s great the way the country, the state and city, the families have changed their thought about bonding relationships outside the community. A long way has come, but why do we hesitate to accept the other person’s choice.

I believe every person has rights, various rights, but what I don’t agree is that we have the right to point our fingers, judge and defy any person for any matter. For a minute I want you to just take a look at yourself-who are you? What are you? What has been made out of you? Just that you have everything normal does not give you and me the reason to judge anybody. Leave alone judgments, some of our decisions, choice in lives, if only it comes out of our respective closets may actually stink and be so shallow like a decaying skeleton. Did these words hurt you? When anybody questions our character, our thoughts, actions and decisions, we fight back with every ounce of life and energy in us.

Shift your thought to these guys, who also live and love like us, how much more do you think it would hurt? I’m not rounding up sympathy here. Get a little empathetic here! They already have quite a many challenges to face. To accept the fact who they are! At least some of them have the guts to face the fact and accept the fact what their identity is all about. Some of us ‘perfect being’ are living in a constant illusion of a life that we are blinded by all the realities of our being. Their constant challenge of finding a ‘true love’! Tell me how different is this endless search from them? Love is all what we need and love is all what we have and can give. Doesn’t half of the world just fight for this? Even they do, which is perfectly normal. Another reason that explains we are all equal.
Every individual’s ardent desire is to live a life with ‘the person they love’. So since when did ‘love this person’ become gender based? Imagine if the rule that every man has to marry the opposite was never a rule at all, do you think the question of, “I’m straight or I’m not”, would even exist? I don’t really think. Rules, traditions and society who created them and defined the laws for them? We-the people, and as time changes, all the above factors evolve. You will be surprised we are all the results of evolution and will forever be. Rewind a decade back and look into you standard of being and compare it with the present. Haven’t you evolved materialistically, financially and even in style and thought? You have evolved from letter to emails and so and so forth. You have evolved into spreading your boundaries and opening the doors to welcome a new tradition and language into your threshold, then why not this? Don’t you think it is time to really look at that wall, we have all built against people who have decided to live the way they want, tumble down. It’s a risk! Tell me the relationship you and I live, what levels of risk do we face, almost similar? Divorce and live-in relationship are becoming the norm of the day, what levels of risk are we facing here? How do we react to these questions?

Love has no language, emotion has no tradition, expression has no physical outline. Then why is that we define people and their choices of life in boxes and right and wrong.

Let’s not put a fight against them. Let’s not shut them out from our lives and the society. Let us find a way of letting them in, by accepting them. If we push and force them to get into a ‘normal relationship’, we will be taking part in a crime. Yes! We will be murdering their root of life by their throat into forcing them into an unwanted relationship against the will and wish of people. And if you point out saying, this is not natural, I’d like to pose a question, is being natural, being right? Or what is the definition of being natural? Natural means to be original’ you and I are original as there is none like you and me. And if we are natural and original why do we again compare or analyze what and who is right?
Again I’ll boil down to another question. Is happiness more important than tradition? All I have known is we celebrate traditions and it’s an just an extension of getting together and enjoying moments beautiful and full of love with your near and dear one’s. Imagine if we could just open up and be surrounded by pure love and people in love, we will all live in peace. We are in the 21st century, every rule we are breaking and creating, why not this. Why not just this! Accept them, allow them to breathe, walk and talk with us.

Let them enjoy the beauty of this life, live the rhythm of everyday and sway in the music of its moment. They have hearts and they have the heart to love, cherish and live. I would love to quote "Love looks not with the eyes but with the mind "- a quote of Shakespeare’s famous , A Midsummer Night's Dream . Of all the war’s we have faced and fought, this indeed is a war of acceptance from a blindness will either makes all of us or break all us in the coming days. You may think I must me living in an illusion and a dreamer but friends, this is the truth I have accepted them to be normal people like you and me. My heart goes out to them and I really hope they find their freedom and in the due course find your meaning and face to face reality of who and what you are.

Status: Complicated or Open- Relationship????

It was about the last week of December '09, I was online on one of the social networking sites and one of my friend's status messages caught my eye. It said, “Dear God, This year my resolution is to have a sustained, quantitative and qualitative relationship, not more that 91 days and I wish to retain my status as 'Its Complicated". Now you may think, it's an absurd status to mention, but the truth is that we live in a world, where we are known far and well by the status we portray. It so happens that these are just not mere words. Most of the social networking sites design their relationship options in ways like," Its Complicated", "Its open relationship" and the usual one's like, "Engaged", "Committed" etc. This has become a rather important issue here-mentioning one's relationship status. I'm quite sure 9 out of 10 people, check the relationship status first, when they receive or browse a friend request or list. It's funny, why do we do this!

In the age of "Cheek to Cheek Kiss", relationships have also taken the same place. We brush up with this one person, we try to hang up with them, when we think it’s not’ convenient'(I love to detest this word), we move on. One of the famous brands has its tag line, as 'move on man'. Oh! Yes, they say, if you want to know the pulse of the youth, just watch the ads. They speak it all. So coming back to the 'relationship' word which is a world in itself, mean so different to each one of us. The reason being, we are social animals and we are never content with what and whom we have! As simple as that!

Asked my friend who was in 5 relationships, out of which she broke up with 3 guys, had a 'somewhat enjoyable live-in relationship' and the guy broke up with her in the next 2 relationships. Asked her the reason behind this adventurous life, her answer to me was, "I can't imagine of staying with a guy for too long, I need change and I love change". After a he get's boring and his deed gets boring and begins taking ownership of me and my things and I can't take that! Well, that's when I "switch". I said in my head." You SWITCH! What's this and turn on and off game?" Apparently yes, there are people who will swear that some of them get into a relationship, just for all the turn on's and once when the flame dies, it's a turn off.
Do I sound very unrealistic and cold when I mention stuff like this? But, this is exactly the most of us are turning out to live. I recall a certain movie scene where partners celebrate their break up. So, the friends go around thinking what to wish them. "Happy Break Up or All the Best". The question here is not “why is this happening”; the question is 'for what' this is happening. We love to live and live to love, so much so that our life is slowly turning out to be a collection of various paraphernalia's, even our 'loved ones' are being accommodated amongst commodities.
The element of love boils down to how much we can give and how much we more we can take from the other, someone quoted. But, I bet they would not have ever though that this degree would vary in terms of monetary and other benefits when some people 'in love' commit to even before they get married. So much for love, is it for the cause of love or money, I wonder. But again, why have we turned out to be like this? It's the moment of truth, let's accept, our pride, independence, financial stability have all become the equivalent or i must say have begun complementing us.
There are people who say, I would rather be in a live-in relationship, experience and experiment, then decide. It's a risk man! Yes, plunging into a relationship is a risk, but there is only one thing I can think of when it comes to live-in relationship that one wants to experience (You know what exactly, I am talking about!). It's not all that, you may argue, but common, let's face facts that is the truth. And please, don't tell me the girl gets ditched here. I somehow feel sad for the guy’s. Every time there is a break up-the blame arrow inevitably points out at the men. Common, have a heart. 'Coz even they too have a heart! Or do they not!
Now the heart of the relationship is the heart itself. We try hard not to give in, but alas! We do at last. A tricky thing I must say, but wonder how does this heart get to love multiple people at the same time upholding multiple relationships. This is where, I begin to ponder, how an affair comes into scene? Or how is anyone and everyone ok with two wives or two husbands (never heard of, believe me, this exists, believe me!).This too is a complicated relationship. I mean, how does a person, have the same kind of relationship with two people? That, my friend, is true talent or like they say multi-loving and loving. Quite a task! Imagine the risk that person takes. Live a life where the other person is not aware of the other. It's complicated or a piece of cake, I'm not sure!

If I have to think of the way God created man, how must have he woven the web of relationships. It really is a web. Take a look around you, you share relationships with your family, friends and professional colleagues and yet, we always end up into a knot when it comes to people whom we love the most-our girl, our guy, husband or wife. In relationship with the above, why do we hate to love and love to hate them? Guess, we can never get the right answer to this question.

In today's generation, love, relationships can be brought down to three facts- a) money b) status c) relationship status. The first thing that comes across your mind even before you date the other is how cool is he/she? And How much can they spend? It's the fact. Some of us revel on it! Yes, you need the money and the amount of cool and hot factor, to be recognised. Getting a hot chick, as a girlfriend, the hotter she looks, the more famous you become or all that matters is your surname and when egos hit-it becomes a dirty breaking news. And who exactly wants to know it-there are a load of them.

It's surprising how the society accepts and rejects such social being. I always am appalled by the flexibility of it. On one side they say no to inter caste relationships and on the other hand they are perfectly ok about it. It's such confusion, that I myself think, that the whole society is incoherent. There are famous people and they are people who become famous through the relationships, they tag along.
The way the other’s love and live may not matter to you. But, guess what, it inevitably will influence you. Coz, we all live and dwell in a society, where we meet and match. We look at people and so will our kid’s, so don’t really blame the generation, the way they handle complicated relationships. They watch the society and just emulate them (Freud would have agreed to me, Hail Freud). Take a peep into yourself and clearly know what ‘relationship status’ you are with your heart and mind-is it open or complicated.

"Ek Chutki Sindoor, tum kyaa jaane Ramesh Babu" has now kind of over running the famous dialogue, "Mere Paas Maa Hain"... Movies are the next favourite to every Indian after cricket. (Well, if not all, but, almost). We dance to their songs; we weep to their dialogues and laugh at their comedy. That's Bollywood for you-a complete masala pack. It's adversary in all sense is Hollywood. The surprising element is how we as audience accept both genres of movie as it is. The truth is Bollywood is in almost all terms the exact opposite of Hollywood, when it comes to everything. (You know exactly what I'm talking about). Ok! Let's compare! Now I want you to imagine, the same Chutki Sindoor in a Hollwywod movie... Will there be one at all? Yes! But the dialogue would say... Hey love, I'd love to stay with you, but, Marriage and rings... Naaah!!!! Let's save it for later part. It just reminds me of the movie 'Nine Months'...where Hugh Grant is petrified with both Marriage and the Dad feeling.

Talking about the same motherhood situation... we have a family 'Naach Gaana'. Thinking of the good old style of portraying a woman-mother to be... she will be asking for 'kaccha aam' or nevertheless puking her head out. (Excuse me for me being so straight! But can't help).When I think of this in a Hollywood style, it reminds me of ' The Father of the Bride', Steve Martin, running the rounds from the hospital to the house along with his daughter and wife. It’s a funny opposite here isn’t it?

In Bollywood- 'The Mother' is the epitome of love, life and not to forget the unstoppable down pour of emotions be it happiness or otherwise in tears. It's amazing how this small tear drop does wonders and melts the heart of her husband, her son, her brother-in-law, her daughter-in-law and not to forget, even the almighty gives in. Since the time I have seen our movies, every mother's introduction shot is either in front of the idol or the door awaiting, mostly, her son or her army returned husband. Couldn't there be another way to portray her love in front of the screens minus the thali and the roonaa. And people, yes, we have won awards based on them. I often wondered if no job would work for me, I'd be an entrepreneur, supplying glycerin to the whole of the Indian industry, and the booming tele-serials. It's a great idea, I feel!

But now this kind of emotion out burst is seen in Hollywood as well. This has taken me to surprise. Now days, most of the movies that the Hollywood are producing is either on terrorism or recession or their favorite 'the end of the world'. And their promos seem to be with at least a couple of tearful scenes and even the men get to cry here. But, I bet they can never beat our Khan's and the Kapoors. Speaking of the end of the world movies, I've noticed something; I'm guessing few of you have as well. Every time we talk of the end of the world... America is the one in attack. Talk about an alien attack, it takes place only in America-first. Or talk about the rise of Super heroes (Superman, Spiderman, Batwoman, and Ironman) what's common? All are Americans. I know this is FICTION...but seems like that's the only place in the world where crisis takes place and to rescue them, the Savior arises- is you know where. I never really understood Hollywood fixation with Superheroes from America. Still discussing about super human's and aliens what does the Indian alien have that Hollywood's alien does not possess- An alien who cries and say's Maa..(You should have guessed which movie we are talking about!). Think! A Crying Alien! What if we have an Indian version of the Transformers? I bet they would be dancing to an item number, since some of our movies do just fine because of them. Or they would be in love with our heroine. And yes, this reminds me of Robo? Wow! He actually did the above all. There you go! The Indian Robo...feels it all.

Film makers like Deepa Mehta and Mira Nair have taken the Indian movies to another level where Raj Kapoor just started. ‘Bold and Beautiful'. Both their movies spelled sensationalism in all its fullness, be it Fire or Kamasutra. But had a nasty response. The aam janta did not like it. So to speak when K Jo tried his hand in extra-marital affair that also bit the dust. Times change and I definitely don't agree that we still talk and show about love and the art of making love as done in the 70's, with a cross of two red flowers or roses (Man, the 70' 80' and 90' were full off those) and we still watch Rose and Jack passionately kissing at the arch of the Titanic. That movie was something else. But what a sham their most intimate scenes are now censored when shown in our national channels. Yes, we hide away, shy away from this. And it's a debatable topic, whether the aam janta can watch ‘it’ or not.

Speaking of love and the rest, let's take a look at our style of first-night. Nine out of ten movies, we have a song, with running around, on the top and bottom of the decorated bed and the room. The milk, the fruits, the decorated fans, the flowers, the agarbathi's and the sweets. (Who ever said, our traditions do not allow us to be open about romance must take a look back to their wedding night). This is elaborately romantic. Can you imagine a Hollywood movie so well prepared. All they do is kiss at the altar, jump into the car, and then jump out of the car and then...you can allow your imagination to do the rest of the job. And I'd never agree to anyone who says, Bollywood is not into detailing? What do you think of the above then?

We discussed about emotions, feelings, Super humans, love and the rest, what remains now to complete any movies is the 'BIG Fight'. Hollywood definitely uses techniques and both their heroes and heroines, well trained in fighting skills. But in our kinda movies, there are at least 2 dozens of villains, fighting against one hero who is presumably, hurt and left with only one gun. He will fight till his death, and, when he falls, a call from his again, any woman related to him, he awakes like a phoenix, reborn and rejuvenated, to kill, them all. I bet in all that action, he misses facts like the same goons come over him again and again. His repetitive screaming shots from different angles, for a few seconds and in slow motion he runs, flies into the thin air and beats the beast. And if he has a revolver, he will run faster than the bullet or to go the South Indian way, will have a custom made sword, from his ancestor’s time, and, he will use only that to kill the enemy of God knows which ancestor. In regards to movies revolving around revenge, no other country can beat the Indian movie land based on revenge. We do have something for revenge.

Intense or am I exaggerating? Nope. That' the typical package of the Indian Masala movie. Heroes are considered God's, whereas only a few heroines have turned into Goddesses. It's all fiction, imagination. Someone rightly quoted, "We know these movies are just imagination. None of these can actually happen. But we love’em! We watch them and delve in the unreal Peter Pan's world, so that we can forget what our worries are". I do agree to this statement.

It's true despite of all the melo-drama of our Indian movies and the heroism of Hollywood movies, we, the aam janta love to laugh and cry with them. We often loathe them and sometimes we love them for the content. This much I can assure you, as long as there remains, dal chawal and achar in every Indian's thali, there will always remain the nach gaana and the rona dhona in their movies. No two ways about it!

The 2010 Diwali marks the beginning of the custom made and fashionable festival after the downfall of recession. The malls have opened their doors with discount offers ever enticing, packed and ready to sell in the most alluring way. So, honey if you have the money you flaunt it! Else, your credit card has become your best friend again.

On a cup of coffee, I just re-winded my memories of Diwali graph on how people celebrated the festival then and now! Those days all what mattered was family. But now the trend has transformed. Diwali 2010, so what’s it all about. Experts call it- The new festive fashion where there is a great detailing of elements from anything to everything. Crackers have been designed from fancy names to fancy packages but the chemicals same. Beautifully crafted packs of sweets, but the sweets, almost the same. Oh! the most interesting one, I personally love the way this one has evolved - the diya's - from the mere clay or mud mould to the electric wired one's and now back to the moulds, at exuberant prices. And why is it so? It's custom made and no two pieces are the same, assures the salesman.

Diwali has not just become an elaborate designer affair but rather a matter of celebration in the most glamorous way! The other day, I was reading in this particular newspaper, that people hire event agencies, they have a theme for Diwali- I presumed it had only one – lights! The theme being – colour Green. So, we have houses and dresses all decked. I am aware that the festival is a five- day’s traditional affair, but the 21st century so-called traditional followers have coined better terms. Diwali is now celebrated in 3 phases: a) Pre-Diwali, (where you juggle between shopping for yourself and cleaning the house) b) Diwali (where you burst and spend all you shopped and send gifts that you have shopped) and c) Post Diwali (Hit the gym to shed for all that you shopped). And in between all of this, we pretty much do manage to fit in the traditions of the five day.

The house decorations, the theme based set up, the sweets and the gifts- I’m amazed as to how the very look of a joyous festival of Diwali has changed, something like that of a metamorphosis. A rather- happy small, joyous festival with family and friends have extended to a loud affair, I mean literally loud. Talk about the soaring demand for consumerism or thanks to the liberalization policy of India, every festival has too much to give to its consumers. This boon for us has a rather shrouding bane. Every decision, choice and even priority has become a competition and even a megalomaniac like me is not spared.

My neighbour asks me - "So what plans for Diwali, this year? Have you finished shopping? Oh! I have a to-do-list, buy sweets, decoration... Do you know any custom sweet guy, who makes traditional sweets? (Before I could answer, she shoots another one... From which mall have you brought your Diwali dress? My God! I need to even hold this gala dinner event for charity! (Halt!!! Charity, from where did this pop up?) She sounded to me like the extremely sophisticated Mrs. Sarabhai and decked up in fashion and style planning a gala dinner for charity cause. I'm a little confused as to how to react here. Whether, to be boring of all her to-do-list or to wish her saying, "Well done, Mrs Neighbour on your fancy-gala dinner-for charity! Believe me; I do encounter a number of Mrs Sarabhai from all walks of life. Let me confess, I am a little petrified by them, as I really am not sure how to answer such dainty darlings.

Do I sound against to people who spend and help? No. I'm all for - if you have, you flaunt it! But, what concerns me is my grey area that is in constant tussle. Its perpetual torture of deciding what has been people's priority this Diwali. Where, the real essence of Diwali, is victory of good over evil, in a spiritual way, people are turning more materialistic in practice, than upholding the reason of the festival. It seems. Every occasion has inevitably become a matter of prestige and pride. To flaunt has become the norm, by default. No one has drafted and formulated this rule, but it is being followed religiously by the word. No one knows where its origin is from but people are blindly following this. Another default element to it- just as my neighbour stressed about is charity. This has become more of a yet another pet show off project. It's amazing how they use the exact wealth to ward away poverty and yet again help the helpless. That, my friend, is the grey area I was mentioning about.

So, apart from the shopping and the buying, the celebration calls for other announcements. For me, it’s all NOISE. One can read parties being held by the biggies in the newspaper dailies, local channels, magazines, parties, which actor is in the city for Diwali etc. Anything for the TRP and circulations gigs. So much has been the Diwali bonding come that we have the Indian cricket team celebrating their Diwali along with the New Zealand team, only in a Test cricket way. Now did the head's ever think twice about, why in the world they need to play a test match when they are supposed to be celebrating this festival with their families. I guess the team deserves a break after their amazing victory over the Aussies. Common, the boys deserve a break.

But this Diwali happens to be really special for the Indian Government, as we have President Obama and the First lady Mrs Obama visiting India. So, the television has something more than just the wishes of the stars and serial actors wishing us their festival's itenary to their fans. One interesting fact is that the whole visit did really remind of me of an ODI's commentary. Obama said that and now Obama does this. Michelle Obama danced with the kids and so on... And so, even the country's leaders are busy entertaining their guest this Diwali.

There is something that we learn from every event. So what do we learn this Diwali? How to beat each other’s scores of party or how well did we uphold this year Diwali’s-theme? The story revolves around the coming back of Rama after 14 years of Vanvas or the end of f Narakasura. On a more spiritual fall, how much does it matter for the return of Rama or the victory of Krishna? We, as a nation, state, family and individual do boast about the great Incredible Indian tradition. But, do we actually follow them. Keep aside the following path, how much does the future-children of our families and the country know the essence and meaning of this festival-that truth is the light, overshadows all darkness and is forever victorious. I’m sure out of every 5 kids for 4 of them; Diwali is all about new clothes, sweets, parties, gifts and crackers.

It’s time we really shake up our traditional values, get into the core out of the noise, for a while and truly understand the meaning of the occasion. This is just not for Diwali-it goes out for Id, Christmas and all the festivals we celebrate in India. It’s not a lecture that you are reading, practically, I had to go back to the Wikipedia to understand the significance of the festival. You may say it’s my fault not knowing the history and I agree. But, this generation are quite unmistakably like me. Running to Google for everything! So, its time we move on from the cacophony and allow the old grandpa-ma folks take a seat, relax sit with your family, and hear the grand stories of victory over defeat. Get together as family- festivals are a big cover up for family get together’s. Make the maximum out of it every festival, everyday!

I wish each you, a Happy Diwali, for the rest of your lifetime. Sparkle up your life!